Be a living transformer of Love - Step 1
The first step on this path of practical love is forgiveness
First, last and always ... forgive, forgive and forgive. If you have not forgiven someone, go to them and beg their forgiveness. You cannot increase the strength of your heart if you hold on to anger. Another aspect of forgiveness is forgiving yourself. Sometimes we think we are not good enough because we look at the human part of ourselves and get disappointed. But remember, we are not perfecting the human part of ourselves. We are empowering and accelerating the spiritual part of ourselves.
Source: lecture by Elizabeth Clare Prophet, Nov. 29, 1998
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